THE D LINE

Friday, June 26, 2026

GENEVIEVE'S GEMS

Two books which were a big influence in my transition

Thursday, June 25, 2026

COMPTON CAFETERIA RIOT

This happened in Auguzt 1966 in San Francisco, three years before Stonewall. Transgender women and drag queens were tired of police harassment. On a hot night, during a raid, they said enough!

From what I understand, a female patron was handled roughly by a cop. She threw hot coffee in his face. The other girls fought with their handbags and shoes. All hell broke loose as the riot spilled out into the street. I don't believe there is any film about what happened outside.However it set inmotion transgender advocacy.

The cafeteria is gone. A plaque marks the spot where the riot happened.

There is a documentary on Youtube titled "Screaming Queens"

I also recommend the book "Transgender History" by Susan Stryker.

More photos

Wednesday, June 24, 2026

PRIDE MOMENT

Not knowing why I believed that I was different troubled me for a long time. Now twenty plus years later, I am comfortable with the person that I am.

With pride week in full swing I am reminded of the struggles I had. The near blow-ups, confusion, the darkness I experienced. I am reminded of the little steps that I took seeking answers to why I believed that I was different.

I remember the feeling I had when I first tried on women's clothes. What surprised me was that I felt no guilt or shame. My wife found my clothes while I was at work. Five hours later, I had probably the toughest conversation ever. She didn't understand but was willing to go with me. I was more concerned about our marriage ending.

I had to educate her and myself. I encouraged her to ask me any questions she had. Support group meetings at the LGBT Center were very helpful. There were so many different gender expressions. Those experiences helped push me forward.

Initially, I came out as a crossdresser. As weeks passed I realized that my feelings ran deeper than just wearing women's clothes. Upon research, I saw the word 'transgender.' Like a light switch, the connection was made. I had my answer!

Another obstacle was reconciling my Christian faith with my being transgender. in 2008, I entered a church for the first time in women's apparel. I felt no guilt or shame. It felt right! My church family accepted me with open arms. My wife accepted me completely after two years. She stated it publicly.

As I celebrate Pride month, I am grateful for the many wonderful experiences and the friends I have made. I will be going to the pride this Sunday. My marching days are over. I'm just a spectator enjoying the vibes of thousands of other folks celebrating liberation and completeness.