This is the book I'm reading right now. There is a Transgender Literary Book Club at the Sage center of which me and another trans woman will be a part of. I remember seeing this book during my early days of comig out. It was published in 2000, five years before I introduced Genevieve to the world. I just found the book today (the book club is on Thursday) so I'll read as much as I can. At least I can discuss something about the book.