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REMEMBER THE FOLKS WHO WILL BE ALONE

The holiday season can be a lonely one for many people. The LGBTQ+ community feels it more so. Some are estranged from their families or may not have any living relatives. 

If you know someone who will be alone, do something that they will feel a part of.; that they are loved and valued.  

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ANOTHER JOURNEY

My spouse and I attended a memorial service last night, paying homage to our friend's sister. It was wonderful listening to loved one share fond memories about the departed. 

I remember the numerous people who have been part of my life but are no longer with me. It would be easy to feel sad and depressed. I chose to think of them coming into my life at important times. We enjoyed each other's company, learned from each other. and grateful for everything. Then we all went off on another journey. 

There are many seasons in life. Some have lasted a long time, others for a brief moment. I cherish those times because, in a moment, it is gone. The memories are always with me.

REFLECTION

The time between Thanksgiving and New Year's is a time of reflection for me. This year was a mixed bag. Some highs, some lows, the struggles from time to time, and an appreciation of many blessing bestowed  on me. 

This season seems to be a deeper one on a personal level. I have changed, seeking a spiritual renewal and improvement in conveying my thoughts in my writing. I may be crossing another boundary, however, the journey will continue.

DECEMBER!

 

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BE GREATFUL

 

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COMMENTARY

The past week has been an emotional ride for me; the Transgender Day of Remembrance vigil and a memorial paying homage to a woman who was a part of the women's group I'm involved with. There was the annual community Thanksgiving dinner after last Sunday's service. Couple that with some intense moments of sorrow and reflection, it left me drained.

Twenty-nine transgender and gender nonconforming people were murdered over the past year. One was a fourteen-year-old transgender girl. I can't get her out of my mind because she was only a kid who was living her reality.  

With the uncertainty looming in the coming months, the only to do is to keeping moving ahead and stay informed. I'm not going to stop being me, that's for sure.    

  

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BE WARY OF THEIR WAYS

 The incoming administration is very active in getting their people in place so they can unleash their diabolical laws against those they deem unworthy. The attack on trans people and the LGBT community is to divert attention from what their real plans are.

I learned from working in the financial sector that if they make job cuts in one area, they will find ways to cut other things. This is what could happen in 2025. The incoming administration is about power and control. They could care less about the citizens they allegedly represent. Also they are spiritually and morally bankrupt.

It is up to us to be there for each other. It is up to us to stand to all these devious plans because our lives are at stake. Be vigi.ent and stay informed. 

TDOR

 

COMMENTARY- HEALING IS NEEDED

Now that the elections are over much healing is needed on all sides. All the vitriol hurled at each other has created distrust and hatred. Some family members won't speak to each other because of his/her political beliefs. Things have gotten so tribal that no one wants to talk about anything.

Time has come for folks to put aside their differences . I'm sure there are folks who were wounded by someone else's remarks about the elections. A family breaking up because they have a different viewpoint is truly sad. Whatever happened to the day when people could  agree to disagree?

People need to ask for forgiveness and restoration. Yes, the election is over but wounds of hate and anger cut deep. Let's apologize to those we have hurt by our words/actions. We must treat each other as fellow human beings. We have to come together as a nation and as fellow citizens. 

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BE OUT AND UNBOWED

 

STAND UP!

A lot of my friends are disgusted and sad about the results of the election. I'm not happy either, however, we must not be overcome by anger and fear. We must carry on. 

Do whatever you need to do to stand up to the bullying and lies. You be you and let no one disrespect. Go about life as you do now because someone may be looking up to you and you may not know it. Stand up and advocate for yourself and others.

HONOR VETERANS

 

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Taking an interest in what others are thinking and doing is often a much more powerful form of encouragement than praise.

~Robert Martin, 

AFTERMATH

 The elections are over. Donald Trump will be the 47th President. Do not despair. Don't be discouraged. Work for the things that you believe in. There are needs to be met. What this means for transgender people, I don't know. I do know that I'm not going to shrink and disappear. I'm going to live my life!

TRANSCESTOR

 

DO YOUR PART

 

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We need to give each other the space to grow, to be ourselves,to exercise our diversity. We need to give each other space so that we may give and receive such beautiful things as ideas, openness, dignity, joy, healing, and inclusion.

~Max de Pree, Businessman (1924-2017)

BE THANKFUL

 

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TRANSCESTOR

 

CHRISTINE JORGENSEN (1926-1989)

Actress, singer, recording artist, transgender activist

POEM FOR TDOR

I'm still working on a poem for Transgender Day of Remembrance. I have read poems at TDOR in the past. This year I see the need for healing and humanizing. 

Trans people are put down by politicians, pundits, and social media in this toxic political climate. I encourage others to be themselves and that they are worthy. This poem is a work in progress.

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VOTE!

Be sure to vote. Not only for the next president but for your local representatives. There are numerous proposal on the ballot which will have an impact on life as we know. Be informed. Get involved.

CALLING CRAP OUT

I'm pleased when people call out stuff that is untrue or inaccurate. I remember Tomi Lahren confidently boasted that "all men are trash". Three days later she went back on that statement because people challenged her. 

Transgender people are under attack by many in power. We are called dangerous, pedophiles, and enemies of the family unit. Transgender people are challenging and speaking out against this negative and dangerous rhetoric.

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You're only here for a short visit. Don't hurry, don't worry. And be sure to smell the flowers along the way.

~~Walter Hagen, Golfer (1892-1969)

TRANSGENDER DAY OF REMEMBRANCE

Preparations are being for next month's Transgender Day of Remembrance. I am working on a poem that will recite. I will also read about the history of TDOR and how it came to be. November 20th is the day of remembrance.

TRANSCESTOR

 

ROBERTA COWELL (1918-2011)

British racing driver

WWII fighter pilot

Transitioned in 1951

First known British woman to undergo gender-affirming surgery

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Live life to the fullest, and focus on the positive.

~Matt Cameron

TRANSCESTOR

 

black transgender woman, midwife who delivered over 1000 children  

AM WHAT GOD CREATED ME

 When I hear or read 'God doesn't make mistakes' it is said by 'Christians' who believe we are all wrong. God didn't make a mistake with me. I am a born again Christian who happens to be transgender.

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 Don't let someone else's opinion of you become your reality.

~Les Brown, Speaker

HOME STRETCH

This last month before the November election will be a doozy. The vitriol from both sides will flow like a raging river. I'm tuned in because America will face some daunting challenges after the elections.

I wish race would not be at the forefront of  all this. Unfortunately, it's shaping up that way. Singling out the Haitian popullation in Springfield, Ohio is a step in the wrong direction. Most of the Haitian residents are here legally. For Donald Trump to say that they are eating dogs and cats is gross and false. 

I rarely post anything political on my blog. However,  this is a crucial time in our country. I am going to stay tuned to what is going on AND what is not being said.

TRANSCESTOR

 

MONICA K. ROBERTS (1962-2020)

Blogger, transgender rights advocate, writer

Founder of TransGriot, a blog focused on transgender women, particularly black women and other people of color.

UPCOMING

 

ENCOURAGEMENT

"Let no one define who you are."

"Let no one try and put you into a box. Be who you are."

I hope that these words encourages someone.

AUTUMN IS HERE

 

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